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If you’re looking for online relationship advice, I’m going to assume that you’re currently dating someone online. And that you're in love and hoping for a long-term relationship, but that you're struggling right now.
So, I hope to help you here with advice on how to deal with the most common problems with cyber dating and online relationships. And, of course, I'll give you some healthy relationship tips too.
Online relationships can start after meeting someone in forums, dating or social media sites. Your intentions at the start of your relationship matter, so - how and why did you meet? Perhaps...
1.You have a common interest, you became friends and then fell in love
2. You were looking for an online relationship with the hope of finding a long-term partner
3. You set out to get into an online relationship whilst already having a committed close couple ‘in person’ relationship. In this case - hop over to my page on surviving infidelity.
Can an online relationship be happy and fulfilling?
There’s no reason why not! Our lives become more and more online as technology continues to advance. We can now fulfill so many of our needs (and wants) on the internet. And if it’s something that appeals to you, that includes finding a partner - and having a relationship - too.
When it comes to the ins and outs of your relationship, it will, of course, be different if it takes place solely online. For one thing, you won’t have the regular physical presence or contact that you would with a partner who you met up with often, or who you lived with. But there are plenty of opportunities to build strong emotional connections. And, of course, plenty of options to explore if you want to include physical intimacy in the relationship too.
But, as with any relationship, there can be difficulties and upsets along the way...
Expert advice on your online relationship
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Your online long-distance relationship may Offer you bundles of one of the most important emotional needs: the need to give and receive attention. That's seductive for sure! But can this need be met in balance when dating long distance?
I’m afraid, if I’m being honest, I don't think so!
The seductive nature of having all of your attention needs to be met makes it all too easy for you to ignore the fact that the relationship may not have a long-term future.
Here’s what may scupper your chances:
Ultimately, when you’re looking for a long-term relationship, it’s because you want to meet someone you could imagine spending the rest of your life with. And I’m afraid to say that there most likely will come a point where one or other of you feels frustrated at the lack of in-person time you can spend together.
But this doesn’t mean you have to end your online relationship right now! There’s plenty to be gained from it - as long as you have realistic expectations about its longevity, and what you really want from the relationship. Be honest with yourself, and make sure you’re choosing the right path for you, whatever you decide.
Finally…
All relationships - online or otherwise - have their ups and downs. There can be problems galore, but there can also be an abundance of happiness and love. If you’re having problems with your cyber partner, there’s just as much chance you can fix the issues as with an in-person partner… if you decide that fixing is the right way forward.
If it’s time for the relationship to end, my online relationship advice is near enough the same as for any other breakup.
